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2 in the right ear, 2 in the left, 1 in the left cartilage, 1 in the right nipple. i have had to take out the rest of them because of the hassle at the airport security checkpoints...

when my partner and i have our commitment ceremony, i plan on having a solid black armband with the kanji for his japanese name in it...

i like my men like i like my coffee; pale, sweet, and with a spoon in them... (homosexual)

depends on my mood... i'm more of a top, but i'm relatively switchable, about 70/30.

i'm in a relationship with him. I don't have an ideal partner, persay. I have always been attracted to androgynous guys, and I have always been attracted to long hair, bit they are certainly not requirements... attraction to me is more psychological than physical... how i meld with someone, their personality, their intelligence, passion, soulfullness has just as much to do it with as the physical... and so defining an ideal partner is difficult, because even if they look gorgeous, and i don't meld well with them, I will be unattracted to them. Unlike most guys, I have to ignore my brain to use my penis. For most guys, it's the other way around... But, if I were to leave the psychological behind, and go based solely on physical appearance, my ideal partner would be androgynous, have piercing eyes, sexy, kissable lips, would be waifish, or lightly muscular, would have to have earrings (guys always look sexier with silver hoops) and for post-sexual enjoyment, a nice chest. when i grow up, i want to date a rock star. i know it sounds like a bad line, but it's true. i am attracted to guys who look like rock stars. not necessarily the stereotypical rockstar, (longhair, open front shirt with abs exposed, and vinyl trousers; although that would certainly be nice...) but anyone who has the image of a rock star. it's the attitude one's image portrays... ( i don't want to date someone with a rockstar's attitude, persay, just the look.) most gothbois are very attractive to me as well... fortunately, i have been lucky enough to have my rockstar boyfriend, with the psychological and emotional attraction to back it up... so i'm covered. :)

when it comes to sexual attraction, emotion plays a big part for me. i have to love someone to find them sexually appealing... but at the same time, i am a very visual person, and the visual aspects of that person plays a big role too... the rockstar image is very sexual to me. it exudes a raw, sensual power. put a guy in vinyl trousers, and he is all that much more appealing... a lot of it depends on mood, though. in some moods, nothing would be sexier than a guy wearing nothing but wrist cuffs and a collar... other times, a decked out gothboi with fabulous makeup, vinyl trousers, latex gloves and a fishnet shirt and hair to die for.. in one way or another, it all involves technofabrix and a rockstar image... i blame growing up with the new wave music of the 80's, and MTV. Give me a scrawny pale guy with some piercings and something shiny on, (preferably latex), and I'm a happy camper.

Well, i don't really have a reoccurring fantasy... it depends, again, on my mood. (am i really as moody as i sound!?) I don't know if I have an 'ultimate' fantasy... it varies. Having a guy who's into the scenario and gear at hand, who is totally enthralled with being dominated, tortured, and at the mercy of my whims and desires is the common thread... latex and bondage are common themes as well. It depends on the scenario and the fetishes of who I am with. So, just as much as I can enjoy watching a guy squirm and sweat in latex and chains, I can enjoy a guy writing underneath hot wax, or a spandex clad guy begging to be allowed to reach orgasm. Equally, seeing a guy get aroused while his nose is forced into my boots or sneakers, or watching a guy lick my boots... Seeing a guy laying on the bed with an erection sticking out of a furry costume; it's all good-- a lot of it has to do with how much the partner is into it. I'm versatile that way, I guess. My flexibility is only in how much the other is willing to do, and how much they are turned on and into it.

wow. what a personal question... someone once asked me this in an email... as a matter of fact, the email went something like "hi, my name is mike. what makes you almost always have an orgasm when with another guy?" i thought it was a bold question to ask, so i added it to the page. if i am penetrating my partner, and we have a deep, passionate, lustful kiss (no one can kiss quite like my k luc), than i will almost always orgasm... or, if someone is performing oral sex on me (and performing it well) and penetrates me at the same time, i will almost always orgasm.

Well, this is a difficult question. It depends on the mood between my partner any myself. I have tried and enjoyed many fetishes, and would happily do them again...but nothing is truly set in stone... my biggest and strongest fetishes are ayndrogeny, dominance, gasmasks, glamwear, gloves, gothic sexuality, latex/rubber, leather, longhair, punk, restraints, snowballing, and vinyl/pvc.. The most predominant of those is latex/rubber, longhair, glam wear and gothic sexuality.

like i said, i'll try anything once... if my partner is into it, than i'll do it again and again. most of the fetishes that i have are the result of previous experiences with partners who had that fetish... some of the fetishes i experienced which i still enjoy from time to time include armour, asphyxiation, biker (dirt & sport), biker (street & race), bloodsports, body modification, boots, cbt (administering, not receiving...), corsets, cum/sperm, dermagraphism, dog/puppy/obediance, electrostimuli, feet/foot worship (as the worshipee, not as worshipper), gasmasks, humiliation, interracial, knife/gunplay, masks/hoods, mummification, neoprene, nipple torment, plastic, piercing, raver/clubwear, rimming, rubber gloves, sadism/masochism, slavery, spandex, sports gear (amrour/padding), sweat, vampirism, vinyl/pvc, wax drippings.

as you can see, i have experienced quite a bit... it seems that nearly every boyfriend i have ever had had some sort of fetish, so my experimentation is a bit wide in spectrum compared to most... i try to be as open minded to new experiences as much as possible, so there is precious little i won't try, although i do have my limits... some things on the list which i have not tried, but am curious to include anesthesia, bukkake, cosplay, down, exhibitionism, fire, fisting (giving, not receiving), fur, hypnosis, medical, olfactophelia, pony/equestrianism, pugilism (giving, not receiving), pumping, rough trade, sneakers/socks, transformation, uniforms, voyeurism, watersports (giving, not receiving), wrestling, yiffy, zentai...