https://fetlife.com/
a free social network for the BDSM and fetish community, based out of the United States. Free to join.
https://www.xtudr.com
A gay fetish and BDSM chat app built in Spain, big in Spain and Latin America.
https://www.squirt.org
A gay cruising site running for more than 25 years, now with the SQ Dating app.
https://www.fetish.com
A kink-positive BDSM community with forums, chat and dating, open to all orientations.
https://barq.app
A social and dating app for furries and the wider alt community, LGBTQ+-friendly.
https://kinklife.forum/
Got a kink? Come on in! 🖤 KinkLife is an 18+ home for all things fetish and taboo. We’ve got a network of niche Telegram groups, a marketplace where buyers can post what they’re looking for and let interested sellers come to them, plus KINKPEDIA for anyone curious to explore and learn more. Whether you’re here to discover something new or know exactly what you’re after, there’s plenty to explore. All about consensual adult interests, without the judgement!
https://www.recon.com/en/
the world's largest fetish personals and chat site for gay men, with sub-sites for most major fetish groups. Worldwide members. Free to join, but limited features without membership. The subsites are: Bears • Bikers • Bondage • Boots • Feet • Fisting • Hoods & Masks • Leather • Masters & Slaves • Military • Muscle • Punks • Rubber • Skinheads • Sports Gear • Suits • Tattoos & Piercing • Vanilla
https://www.rubberzone.com/
a community website for the latex/rubber enthusiast. Free to join, though limited features without membership.
http://www.pupzone.com
Pupzone is a site of profiles for gay guys into pup/dog roleplay.
https://imaglr.com
A microblogging site which allows NSFW content, with a number of blogs focusing on fetish content.
https://bluf.com
An international club for gay men into breeches, uniform and leather, with member profiles and meet-ups in cities worldwide.
https://ecmc.eu
The European Confederation of Motorcycle Clubs, the umbrella group for dozens of gay leather and fetish clubs across Europe, with a shared events calendar.
https://www.scruff.com
A gay social and dating app with a big leather, bear and fetish crowd, plus listings for Pride and fetish events.
https://www.growlr.com
A long-running app for the gay bear community and the men who love them.
https://tomoffinland.org
The nonprofit that preserves Tom of Finland's work and champions erotic art, with exhibitions, an art fair and a Los Angeles home base.
https://www.internationalmrleather.com
Chicago's yearly leather contest and Memorial Day weekend, one of the oldest and biggest gatherings in the leather world.
https://www.folsomstreet.org
The San Francisco nonprofit behind the Folsom Street Fair and Up Your Alley, raising money for local charities.
https://folsomeurope.info
Berlin's yearly leather and fetish street festival in Schöneberg, with a week of parties around it.
https://darklands.be
Antwerp's big leather and fetish festival, run by Leather Pride Belgium.
https://fetishweek.com
London's yearly week of gay fetish parties, social nights and events.
https://www.grindr.com
The best-known location-based app for gay, bi and trans men, used worldwide.
https://www.romeo.com
Formerly PlanetRomeo. A gay, bi and trans social and dating site, especially big in Europe, with fetish groups and travel features.
https://www.hornet.com
A gay social network with feeds, stories and dating, strong in Europe, Latin America and Asia.
https://sniffies.com
A map-based cruising site for gay, bi and curious guys that runs in the browser, no app needed.
https://feeld.co
A dating app for open-minded and kinky people of all genders and orientations, singles and couples.
https://thisislex.app
A text-first social app for queer and trans people to find friends, dates and local groups.
https://www.bear411.com
One of the oldest social sites for bears, cubs, chasers and the men who love them.
https://www.meetup.com
Search for local leather, kink and LGBTQ+ social groups and munches near you.
https://www.reddit.com/r/BDSMcommunity/
A large Reddit discussion forum for BDSM questions, advice and community talk.
https://www.reddit.com/r/gaybdsm/
A Reddit community for gay and bi men into BDSM and kink.
https://www.reddit.com/r/LGBT/
One of Reddit's biggest LGBTQ+ communities for news, support and conversation.
https://bsky.app
An open social network where many queer and kink creators and groups now post. Adult content is allowed behind labels.
https://easterberlin.de
Berlin's Easter weekend of leather and fetish parties, run by Berlin Leder und Fetisch e.V.
https://www.leatherweekend.com
Washington DC's big January leather weekend, hosted by Centaur MC.
https://www.rubbermen.org
Europe's yearly rubber title contest and weekend for the gay rubber community.
https://spunklube.com
Spunk Lube is my personal favourite, and lube of choice, and has been my mainstay and go to for some time. They offer a quality, water based and latex safe pure silicone lube without any additives. Great as a lube, and a dressing aid for latex. They also offer a hybrid lube, a silicone based lube that looks, acts, and feels like real cum, even getting slick with the addition of sweat, saliva, or water. Highly recommended.
https://fetishfactory.com/
A brick and mortar store in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, USA with a pretty significant stock of fetish wear and kinky toys. They're where a good amount of where my gear has come from over the years; I stop in evertime I am in Florida. Their website has a good selection, too.
https://www.invinciblerubber.com/
One of the most reknowed latex and rubber fetish clothing manufacturers, Invincible has been in business for 13+ years out of Nottingham, East Midlands, England in the United Kindgom. They ship worldwide, and because they are a manufacturer, they can make exactly what you want without a huge wait...
https://www.9mmsfx.com/
More special effects contact lenses, but unlike most sites, these are not disposable; they are designed for long-term use, and they are available in prescription strengths! Worldwide shipping via FedEx from the US.
https://www.xdress.com/
A US based company, in business since 1991. Their unique designs of panties, lingerie, and fantasy wear are created to fit the masculine form to perfection, and are suitable for the man seeking a feminine touch.
https://www.latex101.com/en/
Two guys in the UK who manufacturer some very high quality shorts and garments for men, at very reasonable prices. It takes up to 8 weeks for your order to ship, but it is well worth the wait. Worldwide shipping. (Sorry, ladies- menswear only!)
Link here
Link here
https://fetishzone.com/
An online fetish store from North Carolina, in the United States, feturing over 1.700 toys and products ranging from a to z.
Link here
Link here
https://www.slinkystylez.com
From Germany, PVC and Vinyl pants, shirts, and raw materials are available here. Link here
https://www.hml-fetish.com
Leather, harnesses, latex, hoods, jewellery, toys, and more from Germany. Link here
https://www.rob.eu
Rubber, leather, sportkit, toys & silicone lubes... ROB Amsterdam is one of the better known shops, with a wide selection.
https://www.blackstore.ch/
A swiss company with leathers, neoprene, latex, and their own, unique store brand gear. Link here
https://www.westwardbound.com
Quality latex gear from the UK, including some unique styles not easily found. (This is where much of my formalwear comes from.) Link here
https://www.665leather.com/
Unbelievably stunning dungeon furniture. I have their hellcat bench, and it is one of my favourite things ever. Link here
https://libidex.com
Made-to-order latex from a London atelier since 1989, with over 1,000 designs and a big men's range, from briefs to full suits. Ships from the UK.
https://www.polymorphe.com
Canadian latex maker with a full men's line: shirts, trousers, jackets, bodysuits and underwear. Made and shipped from Canada.
https://www.rubbers-finest.de
Heavy rubber specialist from Germany: thick latex suits, hoods, masks and bondage gear for the serious rubber man.
https://www.blackstyle.de
One of Berlin's biggest latex and rubber shops, with its own label alongside other makers. Ships from Germany.
https://skintightrubber.uk
Skin Tight Rubber makes latex clothing in the UK, with plenty of menswear. Ships from the UK.
https://fetishfreak.co.uk
A London shop in Kennington making men's latex and leather to measure, often for less than other shops charge off the peg.
https://misterb.com
Amsterdam's famous gay fetish brand since 1994, making its own leather, rubber and neoprene, with made-to-measure leather. Shops in Amsterdam, Berlin and Antwerp. Ships from the Netherlands.
https://www.mr-s-leather.com
A San Francisco institution since 1979: bondage gear, leather, rubber, neoprene, pup gear and sportswear. Ships from the US.
https://regulation.store
London's Regulation has been making leather and rubber gear for 35 years, much of it made to order, plus toys and kit from other brands. Ships from the UK.
https://northbound.com
Northbound Leather in Toronto makes its own leather and fetish gear in Canada. Ships from Canada.
https://www.eagleleather.com.au
Melbourne's gear store since 1994, with leather, latex, rubber, toys and BDSM kit, including Mister B. Ships from Australia.
https://www.clonezonedirect.co.uk
Clonezone is the UK's biggest gay sex shop, with a wide range of fetish gear, toys and lube. Ships from the UK.
https://stockroom.com
The Stockroom in Los Angeles has sold BDSM gear for over 30 years: restraints, impact toys, dungeon furniture and fetish wear. Ships from the US.
https://store.nastypig.com
New York's Nasty Pig has made gear, sportswear, jocks and underwear for men since 1994. Ships from the US.
https://breedwell.com
Bold harnesses, jocks, shorts and party gear for men. Ships from the US.
https://addicted.es
Spanish brand of men's underwear, swimwear and sexy fetish wear. Ships from Spain.
https://barcodeberlin.com
Berlin men's underwear and fetish wear label since 2008. Ships from Germany.
https://www.killstar.com
British gothic label with a full menswear section: shirts, knitwear, outerwear and accessories. UK, US and EU stores.
https://www.disturbia.co.uk
UK label mixing goth, punk and streetwear: graphic tees, hoodies and jackets. Ships from the UK.
https://www.blackcraftcult.com
Occult tees, hoodies, joggers and accessories from the US.
https://restyle.pl
Polish gothic clothing brand with a good men's range. Ships from Poland.
https://trippnyc.com
Tripp NYC, home of the classic strap and bondage trousers. Ships from the US.
https://demoniacult.com
Demonia's platforms, stompers and gothic boots, sold direct. Ships from the US.
https://newrock.com
The original Spanish platform boots, from heavy biker boots to full gothic stompers. Ships from Spain.
https://underground-england.com
Underground has made creepers, winklepickers and steel-cap boots in England for decades.
https://rauschskripte.de/
A site offering guides with basic hypnosis knowledge: complete procedures, and script framework. Fully in German/Deutsch.
https://www.roseclubwear.com/?ref=rnpyccpm
Rose Clubwear is an online boutique specializing in premium adult products, BDSM accessories, and chastity devices. Our curated collection includes stainless steel chastity cages, Prince Albert (PA) devices, cock rings, ball stretchers, and other adult accessories. We focus on quality materials, functional designs, and a diverse selection for adult enthusiasts. Ships from China.
Advocacy
College
Counselling & Support
-
LGBT Foundation (UK)
-
Outright International
-
Stonewall (UK)
-
The Human Rights Campaign
-
The Trans Lifeline
-
The Trevor Project
- SAMHSA National Helpline
- Antidote at London Friend
-
Pink Therapy
-
The Network/La Red
-
Galop
- Switchboard LGBT+ Helpline
- LGBT National Help Center
-
PFLAG
-
interACT
- AVEN
-
Bisexual Resource Center
-
Find A Helpline
-
GLMA
-
Rainbow Railroad
Education
History & Archives
No links match that search.
Something missing?
Submit a link here